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Boar
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| iam trouble with my friends one i don't really like is pushing me out and has all readlly pushed my best friend out but i like the rest of them so what should i do jen xx _________________ innocennt but naghty |
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| Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Posts: 1290 |
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| Hey there Jen
in my opinion if this girl is trying to push you out of your group of friends and has succeded in pushing your bestfriend out then what are you doing talking to me, you should tell her that you dont like her and if your other friends have a problem with that, then its their loss! you dont say where your bestfriend is but if he/she is around if they are why not take "a break" from your current friendship group for a while and let things cool off?? I hope this helps and you get your problems solved!! Rhianna x _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON! 
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| Joined: 29 Aug 2006 Posts: 2206 Location: Exeter, England |
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| Hi Rhianna, I dont have any probs really at the moment (apart from a nagging mum!!) But when I do, I'll be sure to come to you.
Btw, This advice section is a fab idea.  |
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Boar
| Joined: 29 Aug 2006 Posts: 21 Location: england |
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| my two best mates have been falling out a lot lately so they have decided not to hang out with eachother anymore, so now me and my other mate don't know what to do, we've tried getting them to make up but we can't, what should we do?? _________________ kate is hot sawyer rocks claire is sweet CHARLIES A BLOODY ROCK GOD |
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| I have had a similar problem myslef before....you and your friend, should try individually talking to your other two friends and let them know how you're feeling, try telling them that it is unfair for them to put their fighting between your friendship and you feel like you and your mate are suffering most from this.
Hope this helps!!  _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON!
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Boar
| Joined: 29 Aug 2006 Posts: 21 Location: england |
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yeah we have tried that but they won't listen to us, they just keep arguing  _________________ kate is hot sawyer rocks claire is sweet CHARLIES A BLOODY ROCK GOD |
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| try giving them some space, you and your friend just leave them be, tell them when they start acting their age and have made up to come find you!
hope this helps _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON!
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| Joined: 24 Aug 2006 Posts: 3829 Location: UK, Kent |
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| I'm really worrying about my friend. Lately all he has been eating is really healthy stuff like fruit and he has been eating loads of youghurts and stuff and he never seems to eat a meal anymore. He is getting really skinny and i am sure he must look in the mirror and see himself fat. He is fostered and at the moment there isn't anything anyone can do to make him change his eating styles. He has about 1 proper meal a week (which means that he obviously isn't getting the carbs etc he needs). In a few weeks if he carries it on i will be tempted to talk to social services and get it checked out. I don't know what to do. _________________ http://www.FuturamaFF.com is close to 300,000 posts
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| Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Posts: 1290 |
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| first of all you need to talk to your friend, find out what he has to say about it, and are you 100% positve he is only having one meal a week, try inviting him round to yours and giving him big lunch/dinner and eating with him, see if hes having any trouble or is under stress, see if you can do something to help him beat this, the way you describe this sounds like annorexia im not a medical specialist so dont quote me on that but before you go to social services try talking to him or his foster parents they may not be aware of the situation!!
hope this helps! _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON!
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| Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Posts: 6974 Location: LOST ISLAND |
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| If I may chip in, I think it would be good to talk to your GP |
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| that wouldnt work really because his GP may not be the same GP as smokeys friend and smokey doesnt for sure know whats wrong with his friend, and nor would the GP without examining him! _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON!
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| Joined: 24 Aug 2006 Posts: 3829 Location: UK, Kent |
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I have talked to him, lots of people have. I have invited him round for dinner and lunch LOTS of times and not once has he ACCEPTED a dinner. He just gets dried bread or porridge, fruit and and a youghurt. I am 75% sure that this is annorexia and his foster parents have talked to him. As i said before, lots of people have. It is a bit embarrasing talking to him about it though. _________________ http://www.FuturamaFF.com is close to 300,000 posts
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| Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Posts: 6974 Location: LOST ISLAND |
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| fair enough!
Just don't quote Rhianna as she isn't a medical professional. She is a good agony aunt though!!! |
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| Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Posts: 1290 |
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| I know it can be a tricky subject, but maybe you should just be straight with him, tell him you think he is annorexic, failing a response from this maybe you should go to social services because it sounds like your friend needs some help. _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON!
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| Joined: 24 Aug 2006 Posts: 3829 Location: UK, Kent |
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| Yeah that's wat i thought to. If it gets worse, he will die young and i don't want to see that! I'll try to talk to him about it next time i see him.
Cheers. _________________ http://www.FuturamaFF.com is close to 300,000 posts
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| Anytime! glad i helped! _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON!
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| Joined: 24 Aug 2006 Posts: 3829 Location: UK, Kent |
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| What should i say to him when it comes to talking to him? _________________ http://www.FuturamaFF.com is close to 300,000 posts
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| Tell him that your really worried about him, that you think he might have annoriexia, and that if he doesnt go to the doctors, you'll go to SS. I'd advise going to the doctors with him, so he doesnt pretend to go! _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON!
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| Joined: 24 Aug 2006 Posts: 3829 Location: UK, Kent |
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| Okay, i'll give it a try. Thanks. _________________ http://www.FuturamaFF.com is close to 300,000 posts
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| its no problem at all! or as the spanish say no problemo! glad i could have been of help! _________________ I laugh in the face of danger...then hide until it goes away!!! Smile...it makes people wonder what you're up to! NOT DEAD BUT GONE PADFOOT LIVES ON!
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| _________________ http://www.FuturamaFF.com is close to 300,000 posts
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